About Us

Our Mission

To combat the culture and take marriage back for the glory of God one couple at a time.

“And the Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.” Genesis 2:18

 

Welcome to TULIP Singles! We are a dating website exclusively for Reformed Christian singles who are serious about pursuing godly relationships and marriage. If you are tired of people saying to be content in your singleness, then you have come to the right place! Man was not made to be alone but instead to have the love and companionship of a spouse. Our #1 goal is to get our members off the website and wed! 

“And He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, let not man separate.” Matthew 19:4-6 

We firmly believe that marriage is between one man and one woman only. If you are not in agreement with God’s stance on this, we recommend you join another website. 

“Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.” 1 Corinthians 7:2

Singleness was not the norm in scripture, but a gift only given to few who did not burn with desire. Don’t buy into the lie that you should stay single for the kingdom. This desire has been placed within us by God for the sole purpose of marriage. In Genesis, Adam and Eve were commanded to be fruitful and multiply. As sons and daughters of God, we are to continue to carry out the Creation mandate. We can NOT accomplish this by staying single!

“Then God blessed them, and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.” Genesis 1:28

Marriage is unscripturally being delayed and singleness put on a pedestal. How are we to continue to flourish as God’s people with this mindset? We need to unite and stand up against the culture. It is time to take marriage back for the glory of God!

 

Membership Requirements

- A MEMBERSHIP PLAN MUST BE PURCHASED TO JOIN OUR WEBSITE. ONCE YOUR ACCOUNT IS APPROVED, YOU WILL BE TAKEN TO THE UPGRADE PAGE TO SELECT A PLAN. LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR PLANS AND PAYMENT OPTIONS BEFORE REGISTERING BY GOING TO "MEMBERSHIP PLANS" ON THE BOTTOM OF THE HOME PAGE. NOTE THAT OUR PLANS ARE NON-REFUNDABLE.

- We are a dating website for Reformed Christian singles only. NO exceptions!

- Our members are required to agree with our Doctrinal Statement in full and hold fast to Calvinism, commonly known by the mnemonic T.U.L.I.P. This stands for Total Depravity, Unconditional Election, Limited Atonement, Irresistible Grace, and Perseverance of the Saints.

- Adherence to at least one of the following Confessionals and Creeds is also a requirement: the Westminster Confession, the 1st London Baptist Confession 1644/1646, the 2nd London Baptist Confession 1689, the Philadelphia Confession, the New Hampshire Confession, and the Three Forms of Unity (Belgic Confession, Canons of Dort, Heidelberg Catechism). Since this is not an exhaustive list of Reformed Confessionals, we welcome any professing Reformed Christian single to join Tulip Singles. 

- We require our members to provide the name of their church and pastor. This is simply used for verification to help us decipher if a potential member is Reformed. Other members will not have access to this information. We respect our member’s privacy and do NOT contact a member’s pastor unless they need to be held accountable for inappropriate behavior on the website. 

- We welcome those who are Reformed but are unable to attend a Reformed church.

- Members must provide a clear picture of themselves, answer a detailed Q&A, and photo verify during the sign-up process before being manually vetted by our admin team. Photo verification ensures there is a real person behind the account and they look the same as their profile pictures. Profiles without a photo are promptly removed from our site. We ensure people are who they say they are, so you don't have to!

 

Our Website Features

- We have approximately 1,000 members and an even number of men and women!

- A superb user interface to enhance your quest for a spouse!

- Our members are required to fill out a detailed Q&A section to help attract the right people to their profiles.

- Our members can message, search, audio, and video chat from the safety and security of the website.

- Members verify their accounts using Photo Verification. This is a simple process that will then be manually approved by our team. Validating a user's identity greatly enhances the safety and security of our system. We are one of the few dating websites to have this feature in place. 

- App for Android and iOS coming soon!

- We also offer monthly Zoom video events for our members to meet face to face in a no-pressure group setting! 

- Our membership plans are designed to fit your needs and budget! Our rates are considerably lower than other dating websites. Promo codes and free communication weekends are offered regularly, too!

 

Our Webmaster

Jason launched the new Reformed Christian Dating website, Tulip Singles on Aug 1, 2019. He has dedicated it to the Christian single men and women of the Reformed community for dating and courtship. Being a single father of two sons, he saw a need for a website that would meet his qualifications of being Reformed, secure, easy to navigate, with the purpose of glorifying God and establishing godly families. He believes Christian families are the strength of our nation. They enable us to be salt and light to our communities and to train the next generation to love God and follow Christ.

Jason became a Christian at the age of nine and was raised in the OPC. He is now a member of Heritage Presbyterian (PCA) in Warrenton, VA. His father was a forester and they lived in very isolated communities as well as in large metropolitan cities and he experienced the need for contact among young Reformed Christians because of small churches.
 
Jason’s credentials for establishing this website are his IT abilities, working professionally for 25 years in the D.C. area including working for the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff at the Pentagon, the Treasury Department, and various other government agencies. His experiences taught him how important security is for a website and the dangers of not having it. His particular skill sets include Database Administration (DBA), Systems Design and Implementation for Windows and Linux OS systems, Network engineering, Cyber Security, and Web development.
Jason’s hope is that Tulip Singles will produce much romance and many happy marriages.

 

The TULIP Singles Team 

- Our team has a combined 55 years of technical experience to provide a quality website for our members. 

- Our team is 100% Reformed in their theology and are members in good standing with a doctrinally sound church. We understand the difficulties of being a Reformed Christian single in a secular world. 

- Our team manually verifies every account to ensure maximum safety and security. We do this to provide a quality membership of Reformed Christian singles. We weed out the fake profiles and scammers, so you do not have to!

- Our team sends out newsletters throughout the month to encourage our members in their search for a spouse. Website tips, featured profiles, articles on singleness, dating, and relationships are also included to help you weave through the daunting world of online dating. You can also check out our awesome blog with suggestions on how to build a great profile and more! 

We think you will have a great experience on TULIP Singles! Our website is constantly being updated as we strive to make it the premier online dating destination for Reformed Christian singles worldwide. Our desire is to equip members with the necessary tools to succeed in their search for a spouse. See our Success Stories page to read about the couples that have met on our website so far! 

What are you waiting for? Join our revolution to take back marriage for God’s glory today!